“Is marriage the only thing a woman can survive”
I am in my thirties and still unmarried. Wherever I go, a question that constantly follows me is when I am going to get married? I don’t know the answer and neither my family. My parents are continuously looking for a groom but things are not happening as they have planned.
I am working in an MNC at a good position. I have had few relationships in the past but they were not for lifelong. So now I am single and I am very much enjoying my status. I go where ever I want and do whatever I love to. No one is there to question me. I live my life and I have no regrets.
The ones which are most worried about my life are either my relatives or my neighbours. I am not born to answer them neither my parents are. All I want is to be at peace. The marriage will happen whenever it suppose to happen, I cannot force it to me. They blame that I am too particular about choosing my life partner. How can I make them understand that if I choose a person it is for a lifetime? He should be the man of my dreams with whom I spend the rest of my life. He should understand my priorities and my lifestyle.
I have stopped attending public events where I have to meet my relatives or neighbour. I have even lowered the frequency of visiting my parents just to avoid my neighbours and relative but whenever I go I hardly step outside my house.
I am just thankful to God that my family supports me and never forced their choice on me. Although I am happily into my space but still hope that I would get the man of my life soon. It’s much more happiness for my parents rather than me.
Dear society please spare us with your nonsense questions. I am happy and don’t make me feel that I have no life without getting married.
well ok I’ve just been trying to read the writing which you have been writing to try and find a decent dude for you and I have been thinking that I would love to meet you for some questions from both of us yeah?xXx